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Seeing Red

I still have that sweater, the one I bought from J Crew when I was 19. It’s cable stitched cotton, a mock turtleneck. Forest green, a popular late-80′s color. I think it’s coming around again, though I lacked style and wore it every year from then to now.

With this quest to reward myself for weight loss success, I wanted to break my sordid love affair with J Crew. Kiss a different lover. Add a frock to my closet that was more than something I put in my perpetual shopping cart on the J Crew site.

I always have a cart going. My J Crew user name is continuous sign in. If the three sale items in my current basket are still there by the weekend, it’s a sign I’m supposed to have them.

It’s a sick game I’ve played for as long as they’ve been online.

No surprise I settled on threads from J Crew. A dress from their fall collection. I violated my usual rule and splurged for something full price.

We set the balance aside to go to Helsinki for Thanksgiving. Because experiencing life is ever so much better than wearing it on my backside.

This post is part of the series Don’t Mess With the Dress. If this is your first visit to the series, please click here to go back to the beginning, go here for the second installment, click here for the third installment, go here for the fourth installment and click here for the fifth installment.

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  1. Helsinki – that is a cool idea. Aquavit and crayfish and bad craziness. That’ll be some thanksgiving.

    September 27, 2012
    • It is a very cold idea, Roger, but that’s part of the fun. :)

      September 27, 2012
  2. …by the way – cool picture:)

    September 27, 2012
    • Between you and Robert Johnson (quotidianhudsonriver), I am ashamed of every picture I post. But, thank you.

      September 27, 2012
  3. We all need a reward for losing weight, even if it’s only 2lbs.
    Now, where did I put those chocolates? ;)
    Luuuuurve the dress.

    September 27, 2012
    • Haha. I ate a chocolate last night……….and woke up almost a whole pound heavier………

      September 27, 2012
      • Sounds about right….. :(

        September 27, 2012
  4. Nice look!

    September 27, 2012
  5. Awesome dress, and you can play checkers as well. Helsinki is a great destination, on my list in the next few years for sure.

    September 27, 2012
    • I’m really looking forward to some serious snow and hot drinks from the huts at the Christmas markets.

      September 27, 2012
  6. A very nice selection and you look great in it but the bad news, no lottery win for me (but you really didn’t want that $3k dress anyway, did you?

    September 27, 2012
    • I was pulling for you, Howard. I am sorry you didn’t win.

      September 27, 2012
  7. A very fine selection. Quite dotty. The color is great on you. According to a show Bill and I watched on The Science Channel, a woman in a red dress can get more men to do her bidding than a woman in a white dress. The woman in the study was able to get men to give her money, to pick her up and carry her across the street, and to listen to her requests. The woman in the white dress was only marginally successful. I can’t remember the Science channel series this was part of but it was one on the brain and how it works.

    September 27, 2012
  8. Debbie #

    I think travel is always a better choice!

    September 27, 2012
  9. Practicality will out!! Helsinki AND a new dress! I love this choice!! Wear as is for evening, and add jacket, etc. for that business lunch! (PS…I don’t think you lost that much “off the top.” You look quite “balanced”–and very svelte–to me!)

    In the 60′s a number like this fit into the image for “Power Dressing.” It would appear that mantra is back for another go ’round: http://www.wearittowork.co.uk/fileStore/news/BQcDAAAAAwoDanBnAAAABC5vdXQKFmxPRTJDTFZCM3hHUGFDdUxaOEhTbFEAAAACaWQKAXgAAAAEc2l6ZQ.jpg

    September 27, 2012
    • I do have a velvet jacket that would probably look good with it. And, it’s sure to fit again…. :)

      September 27, 2012
  10. Mad jelly! Hope you have a great trip.

    Awesome dress — you look loverly!

    September 27, 2012
  11. aboccucci #

    I LOVE that dress! You are absolutely gorgeous! This has been one of my favorite series recently…and I love your board on Pinterest too :)

    September 27, 2012
    • It was a fun break from the fiction, Andrea. I’m glad you enjoyed it.

      September 27, 2012
  12. Jill Clary Stevenson #

    Fabulous dahling, just fabulous!! You look like a teenager!

    September 27, 2012
  13. You look amazing in that dress! Love the style and the print is AWESOME! Grats again!

    September 27, 2012
  14. Adorable!

    September 27, 2012
  15. Foxy! You look amazing.

    September 27, 2012
  16. Red is always a good choice, Andra, and you wear it well. I’m sure it will accompany you to Helsinki. This was a fun series and your wrapped it up all nicely with this picture present of the Lady in Red. Well done!

    September 27, 2012
    • I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to wear red after I colored my hair red. But, it works together. Thanks, Penny.

      September 27, 2012
  17. Woo woo, hottie! You look fantastic! Good for you! Wear the hell out of that thing! Wear it to the grocery store.

    September 27, 2012
    • Haha. I actually think I have already worn it to the grocery store… :)

      September 27, 2012
  18. James Moffitt #

    Looking good Andra, looking good. Congrats on the weight loss. :)

    September 27, 2012
  19. You look FABULOUS! But that dress will not be warm enough for Helsinki in November . . . better pack the sweater! :D

    September 27, 2012
    • I won’t even take it to Helsinki in November. I do have plenty of wool socks that will be going…..

      September 27, 2012
  20. On Andra! That dress is BEAUTIFUL on you. I LOVE the color (sorry for the caps but I feel that way). Perfect. As I read the picture slowly scrolled up..the first thing I saw was your smile. It made me smile. Thanks for that. That dress would make me smile too.

    September 27, 2012
    • The color looked happy and festive to me. I’m glad my choice ended up being red. If I had started with that in mind, I never would’ve found it. :)

      September 27, 2012
  21. You look great! Lovely choice.

    September 27, 2012
  22. Love the dress and the pattern on it. Looks like dots, yes?

    Again, great job on the new eating plan. Thought of you and MTM last night when I grilled two quarter pounders, sans bun, generously sprinkled with lemon pepper. YUM!

    September 27, 2012
    • It is dots, yes.

      I owe you the waffle recipe. Getting it from MTM to email to you right now.

      September 27, 2012
      • No rush. Whenever you get a chance. I went off the rails today and had bacon and eggs … with hearty, whole wheat pancakes. Just couldn’t resist them. :/

        September 27, 2012
      • Just send it to you, since MTM was sitting across from me. Let me know if you have any questions.

        September 27, 2012
  23. What a great dress, Andra! And Helsinki? Damn, that sounds amazing!
    Hugs,
    Kathy

    September 27, 2012
    • I am really looking forward to going there. Neither MTM nor I have ever been.

      September 27, 2012
  24. It’s a beautiful dress and you look simply wonderful in it! And I love your choice! As much as you love travel, you’ll enjoy Helsinki, and the enjoyment of all the planning and anticipation up front! Good choice! :-)

    September 28, 2012
    • Thanks, Debra. I hope Helsinki will be fun. Two hours of daylight will certainly be different from home. :)

      September 28, 2012
  25. Cuuute! I love the pattern.

    Sadly, J. Crew stuff never fits me. Like, ever. But that doesn’t keep me from looking.

    September 28, 2012
    • Banana Republic never fits me. It’s weird how these places differ so much with sizing.

      September 28, 2012
      • Ha — Banana Republic fits me fine pretty much always. I suppose it’s good that there’s something for every body type, but J. Crew’s marketing continues to suck me in!

        September 29, 2012
      • They are both really good at the marketing thing, aren’t they? Want factories.

        September 29, 2012
  26. Red! I was right! And you look fabulous, of course….

    September 28, 2012
    • Thank you, Kate. I laughed when you first said red. I already had the dress. :)

      September 28, 2012
  27. Love the dress! I have one very similar in black and white graduated dots that I got for my Paul Harris award presentation spring 2011. Of course, they neglected to give me my PHF that night, and now I’m 15 lbs too heavy to fit into my awesome PHF dress. ( But since I still don’t have the PHF, perhaps I’ll be back into the dress when my club finally decides to give it to me?) lol

    Give my regards to Helsinki! Run up the steps of the Tuomiokirkko (cathedral) and be sure to spend some time at Temppeliaukio (rock church) where the acoustics are amazing. There are often musicians playing during the day; if you’re lucky you may catch someone playing the traditional kantele. Visit Sibelius monument on a windy day, and see if it plays for you! Lie underneath, it’s amazing! Catch a concert at Finlandiatalo, as well, and don’t miss exploring the Kansallismuseo! (I was a Rotary exchange student in nearby Kotka, once upon a time. I love Helsinki! :-) Have a wonderful trip! “Hauskaa matka!”)

    September 30, 2012
  28. WOW… your Hotness Level matches the intensity of that Red Dress…

    October 3, 2012

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