a slip of the lit

Lizzi Rogers is outstanding. Be it as a writer, a poet (which I put in another category because, dang, I can’t do it), a cheerleader for other writers or a friend. I hope you’ll follow the link below and check out Lizzi’s generous interview with someone you know.

Hint: It’s me, probably sharing a couple of things you don’t know about me.

Hint 2: Like I’ve got a sequel to To Live Forever. And an actual publication date.

Hope to see you at today’s A Slip of the Lit HERE.



Have you ever made plans, only to see them fall through?

Yeah. Me too.

I’m supposed to be in Italy right now. Because after a stressful Spring, what’s better than guzzling—I mean SIPPING wine under the Tuscan sun? Only I’m NOT in Italy, because LIFE. Instead, I’m stuck in my house.

I know. Nobody feels sorry for me.

Shitty circumstances stripped me of my dreamy Italian getaway and handed me……….a blank holiday weekend. No appointments. No events. No plans. Nowhere I had to be.

When was the last time
YOU had absolutely nothing
on your weekend calendar?

Here’s how I made the best of absolutely nothing:

  1. I read. I turned off the computer, silenced my phone and curled up in bed. One book helped me recall who I used to be: A woman who loves to explore the world through a good book, without feeling guilty that I *should* be doing something else.
  2. I sat outside in the sun. We found a quiet corner table overlooking the marsh. Over food that was too fiery and drinks that weren’t quite cold, we held hands, eschewed sunblock and just talked. About everything. About nothing.
  3. I spent unexpected time with friends. Life is too busy to see anyone these days. When we dropped by a friend’s house for a few minutes, we found ourselves on their back porch for hours. Watching the sunset. Sipping scotch. Catching up with people we wish we saw more often.
  4. I played cards. I shuffled. MTM cut. I dealt hand after hand while we played footsie under the table. No screens. Phones I-don’t-know-where. We indulged in an old fashioned game of chance. I won’t reveal what I won. *wink*
  5. I napped. A mid-afternoon snooze is the most decadent thing on earth. Before screens conquered the world, I used to worship at the Altar of Napping almost every afternoon, and I came back to work refreshed and uber-productive. I’m glad a cancelled trip reminded me that naps help my brain to fire.



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One thing you couldn’t have done without your dad. Hashtag your social media post #NotWithoutMyFather.


Father’s Day. Give someone Not Without My Father, the ultimate Father’s Day read. ONLY $2.99.


Big announcement coming in this afternoon’s e-newsletter. Be among the first to know.


passion longwood plantation

See this building? Longwood Plantation. Natchez, Mississippi. A 30,000-square-foot dream house, begun by a Union sympathizer.

In 1861.

From a distance, Longwood‘s octagonal mass and cherry-on-top promises opulence. Grandeur. Impressive attention to architectural detail befitting a couple obsessed with living in the belly of their dream.

It’s only when one ventures inside that she learns the truth.

The Civil War bankrupted the family. When he sent the workers north in 1862, he didn’t know he’d be dead by 1864. She moved into the mansion’s basement with her eight children, still fighting until her death in 1897 to garner federal reparations to finish her dream, to make the five stories above her head more than an elaborate, unfinished attic.

Right now, I know how she felt.

passion longwood plantation

Passion is a ball-buster. It takes completely sane people and makes them crazy. Obsessed. Cycloptic in focus.

That’s me, Dear Reader. I’m all those things. I could bore you with my despair, or I could take MTM’s advice and realize I’m over-eager and want too much, too soon. (He doesn’t have to do our 2014 tax return today and see the substantial five-figure writing loss, though…..)

In public, I try to focus on the positives. Nobody wants me to lift the veil right now.

If you’ve read my books, THANK YOU. If you’ve reviewed them, recommended them to someone, bought them as gifts, mentioned them as reading options anywhere, pestered your local librarians, thrown me parties, hosted me in your home, submitted Make a Memory stories or anything else, THANK YOU.

Your lives are swamped with noise, distractions and requests for your time. If you’ve given me time, THANK YOU. You’ve probably already done everything you can to help Not Without My Father find an audience.


If you have a minute or two and are comfortable with any of the following activities, I would appreciate that time more than I can type today. I’m beaten. And I’m bloodied. And I’ve cried oceans.

  1. I’m running a special via Facebook ad. It’s called “Money-back Guarantee!” If you know someone who needs to read Not Without My Father, please share the post on their Facebook wall. Tag them by name and tell them WHY they need to read the book or what it meant to you in the post’s description. To do this, click “Write Post” after you click “Share.” Between now and May 12, Not Without My Father electronic versions have a money-back guarantee. If someone purchases the e-book and is dissatisfied, I’ll refund their money with valid proof of purchase. As an added bonus to you, Dear Reader, I’ll award one of my five precious copies of NWMF, signed by practically everyone in the book, to a lucky winner. Between now and May 12, 2015, simply share the “Money-back Guarantee!” post, follow the instructions above, and tag me to enter.
  2. If you’re in any social media group and you’ve read one of my books, please craft a quick post and tell others what the story meant to you.
  3. If you know anyone who selects speakers for groups, I would appreciate an introduction/recommendation for the fall season. Personal recommendations are the most successful asks. Many libraries, retirement communities, colleges and universities, private clubs, companies and business groups pay speakers. I can provide a list of references as well as professional video, and I can tailor a presentation to a specific group. Anyone who’s seen me in action will tell you I’m an awesome presenter.
  4. If you’re connected to anyone with a large online following, please recommend Not Without My Father to them. They might feature it somewhere.
  5. I mentioned libraries on Friday. Libraries BUY my titles. Whether you use your local library or not, you’re a resident of the library’s jurisdiction and thus a possible patron. Please either use their online request-a-book form to ask them to purchase my titles, or ask the person in charge of purchasing decisions to buy my books the next time you visit. Again, you DO NOT have to use your local library to make requests. Other people may find my books and be inspired to Make a Memory because of your efforts. And if they ask, YES…..my books are available at both Ingram and Baker & Taylor, the two primary places libraries purchase books.


For the next couple of weeks, I won’t be posting here, and I’ll be scarce throughout social media. I need to take some time to nurture my soul and heal my shredded spirit (AND complete a West Coast book trip.) In the interest of zoning out as soon as possible, I’ve disabled comments today. I look forward to seeing you online around May 1.

Same batty time. Same batty channel.