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You’re a Firework

Dear Cayleigh:

You leave today. I told myself I wouldn’t cry.

I lied to myself. I couldn’t stop the flow. Since you came along almost 10 years ago, I could always pop in the car and see you whenever I wanted. You lived just across the river. It wasn’t far. Now, I wish I’d made a double dose of that drive. A triple dose. I never should’ve taken the closeness of giggling with you for granted.

Especially now that I don’t have its warming beacon in my world.

You’re somewhere in Georgia now. Maybe Alabama. On your way to Baton Rouge. Lots of cool experiences await you. Don’t hold yourself askance. When you’re scared to death, fight that fear. Experience all the nuanced richness of life. Embrace its flavors and textures, its colors and its hues. Do those things, even when facing them or leaving them brings you to tears.

Part of living is leaving every single thing we care about behind someday. It’s letting things go when it rends our souls. It’s forging something new in the daunting disarray of what’s left. It’s knowing that people love you, even if they can’t see you every day.

Until October, when I see you again. Be a firework in your world, Cayleigh.

I love you.

Andra

I Almost Screwed Myself

A coda to this series. My father served in the US Army in the 1950′s. He was stationed in Germany, and he visited London in 1957. His departure for his tour leads a series in honor of Queen Elizabeth II’s Diamond Jubileea post you can read here. Follow the posts forward to read the series in order. His photographs of London in 1957 are juxtaposed with my own modern images to try to tell a story each day. Thanks for reading and for sharing this series with your friends.

By Roy Watkins. June 1957.

For those of you who are relatively new or sporadic readers of The Cootchie, MTM and I moved a little over a month ago. Our new space is smaller and came furnished, but that didn’t stop us from deciding we HAD to have certain items of comfort that morphed into most of our crap. The balance of our everyday detritus went into a storage unit close by.

Really, I TRIED to keep track of what went where. I created detailed inventories. Made lists. Scrawled contents all over the outsides of every box with the biggest Sharpie I could find.

I guess I sniffed too many Sharpie fumes, because, when it came time to pen this series, I couldn’t find my Dad’s photos. With three scanned on my laptop, I dove right in, convinced they would somehow walk out of hiding and fight to be included.

Two nights later, poor MTM traipsed to the storage unit alone, the sound of me screeching that I knew – I KNEW – I packed the photos in one of the boxes of books from our old bedroom sending him fleeing home ringing in his ears. Convinced of my rightness, I kicked up my feet, sipped a night cap and immersed my lazy self in a book.

Hours later, MTM emerged from a detour to a bar to drown his sorrows the storage unit, sans photos. I looked in every single box, Andra. They just aren’t there. Are you REALLY SURE you packed them?

Of COURSE I packed them. They are in one of those boxes from the old bedroom. You just didn’t look hard enough.

He gave me a bleary glare and stumbled to bed, but not before vowing to drag me to the storage unit to show me how wrong I was. The very next evening, that’s exactly what he did. With patience of steel, he pulled every box out of the unit and made me go through them. I’ve BEEN LOOKING for this Paris book………Oh, look! We can make sushi!……..Are you SURE we don’t need more dishes?………..You’re hiding those pictures from me, aren’t you? I mean, I’ve looked in every box here. I KNOW I packed them.

Back at home, I opened the same drawers and cupboards I’d already inspected fourteen million times. I scoped under the beds, pulled up the sofa cushions. Finally, I opened a drawer in my office THAT I USE EVERY DANG DAY, and there, tucked between two plastic folders I also use every day, were the Pictures I Knew I Packed.

The series went on, leaving me in debt to MTM until the next Diamond Jubilee.

At least.

By Andra Watkins. March 2009.

Let’s Make a Deal Winners #7

The final installment of our moving and grooving oddessy, and I am too pooped to make these words pretty. Let’s Make a Deal Winners (or Losers, depending upon their degree of excitement over their prizes.)

Behind Door Number 1: Alison Dailey flat-out guessed the Penelope item, and she therefore wins an antique milk glass plate. Owned by the person who inspired Penelope. Hated by MTM the architect. Congratulations, Alison! I am bringing this item to Rotary this morning so that you cannot back out of taking it. :)

Behind Door Number 2: We have a lovely ceramic rose going to the drawn winner, Debbie Hennessy. Debbie, it will be coming your way today. Congratulations. I hope you will stare at it and think of………..something.

Behind Door Number 3: The most popular item by far, MTM’s favorite thing even garnered a private e-mail from his mother asking what it was so that she could give it to him. I replied with…….NNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!! I have picked up 4,375,299 pens that have fallen out of various crevices and drawers during this blasted move. MTM DOES NOT need any more pens, which are truly his favorite thing on the face of the earth. Lou Mello guessed the item, and he wins a box of MTM’s favorite discontinued and hoarded pen, the Uniball Micro Roller.

And behold, the spot from whence I typed this less-than-eloquent post: our new office in the concrete jungle. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, MTM tricked me into moving into a concrete building. Every morning, his eyeballs will stare at concrete ceilings when he awakens. His precious feet will pad across concrete floors to fix my breakfast. His architect self will skip around in his concrete clad happy place all freaking day long.

Thank you for reading this blog and for playing along with this silliness for the past week. You made a stressful, insane, hair-tearing experience fun. Almost every time I needed an extra burst of something, it was here on this blog in a comment from one of you. Thanks also to those of you who e-mailed messages of support, who tweeted ditties of encouragement, who texted and called. You made this the easiest move I’ve ever made. Thank you from the pit of my little old, exhausted heart.

One Cool Blow

One week from today, MTM and I pick up stakes and move to One Cool Blow. And, now that our house is encased in neon purple shutters, I’m ready for moving day to be……..right now.

Except, I haven’t packed everything.

Here’s the thing about packing. I love it, and I detest it. Really, it depends upon which thing I’m packing at the moment.

Thing 1: Long lost pictures from our honeymoon, found in the bottom of a box, making me take precious packing minutes to relive drinking coffee on a sidewalk, selecting flowers from a street vendor, driving on the wrong side of the road. Buried treasure. Recovered.

Thing 2: Pulling out random thing-a-ma-jig and asking MTM if we need to move it, store it or throw it away. (Secretly hoping he wants to throw it away.) He wants to move it. Every single solitary time. Deciding to pack while he is at the office, because more can be thrown in the garbage when he is not helping.

Thing 3: Wondering how to contact the landfill to find something from the purge in Thing 2 that MTM decided he must have and cannot find.

Thing 4: Trying on everything in my closet. Bargaining with myself about how much of it I will ever be small enough to wear again. Deciding to take all of it just in case while eating a Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup.

So.

We move a week from today, and I need a packing playlist to help make me zip around this house like lightning to finish on time. Dear Reader, what song would you recommend I play to get me moving?

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