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Read My Essay ‘The Friend Who Got Away’

My essay 'The Friend Who Got Away' was 1 of 10 friendship essays the editors at The Her Stories Project selected for publication. Read it here.

My essay ‘The Friend Who Got Away‘ was 1 of 10 friendship essays the editors at The Her Stories Project selected for publication.

Read ‘The Friend Who Got Away.’ CLICK HERE

Losing a friend is never easy. I divorce my husband. She stays with hers. Our friendship is burdened with the weight of our split decisions. Eventually, it breaks.

Andra Watkins, ‘The Friend Who Got Away’

CLICK HERE. Read ‘The Friend Who Got Away.’

This was an emotional piece to create. I haven’t shared much about my early adulthood, my mistake marriage, or the relationships I lost in the aftermath of our breakup. I don’t care about most of them, but this one will always sting.

Regret manifests in crushing ways.

It flutters through a song. Lingers in a scent. Causes heartburn after eating a meal. It haunts once-favorite places and seeps into our dreams.

Regret makes this very personal essay universal. I hope it speaks to you.

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3 Comments

  1. Never easy to share this type of story. It is well done. Abusive relationships are too common. Unfortunately, the abuser uses fear to gain control and usually makes the victim believe that it is their fault. Maybe your friend still needs help? You maybe the only one who knows her story.

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      I’m not. And no matter how much I want another person to do a thing, he or she ultimately choose for themselves.

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